Twilights-Secret
Comfy Pones
Oh dear. I’m really afraid of this, actually. Eh. Having doubts about if being this revealing was a good idea…
So, I decided a forum post to continue the discussion was appropriate, since it looked like it was going to continue going off-topic from the original picture, and since this way it’s more public so more ponies can learn! I thank the internet for the veil of anonyminity that makes such education possible~
So let’s get to it! Try explaining Why you like your fetishes. The conversation linked above, so that these explanations can be part of this discussion:
@Background Pony #DF1A
Curious. Why do people like diapers?
@Background Pony #DF1A
Different people like it for different reasons. For myself, I’ve got a lot of anxiety, so it’s a soothing comfort to know that the most horrendously embarrassing possible thing - having an “accident” (not to mention the disgusting mess associated with that!) - is safely, securely protected against by plush, soft containment.Plus, I always feel a bit naked, even when wearing regular clothes. Like, if you were in public in nothing but boxers, you’d feel exposed because that’s not enough clothing. Likewise, but for me I even feel the nethers are a bit too exposed even when wearing underpants and normal pants (normally dressed), but diapers are enough thick clothing to make that “exposed” feeling go away almost entirely.Plus, it’s kind of like wrapping yourself in a cozy security blanket for comfort, except it cozies up the most vulnerable parts of your body, and provides those protections/securities listed earlier about accidents.For someone with anxiety and I guess with how my brain works, life is always a bit like tightrope walking, and the diaper is a security net just a foot underneath that I know will catch me, all the while giving a soft, plush hug.Plus, not gonna lie, there’s definitely a bit of a “naughty” component to it, ||that’s almost certainly from A) the thoughts that any “accidents” of that nature will also be nicely contained instead of making a terrible mess to clean up, and B) it’s applying sensation (sometimes even a warm, wet one) to those parts of the body; something soft and plush pushing against those parts are certain to illicit some feelings >///< ||
@Background Pony #DF1A
Other people may like it for similar reasons, or because they like to mentally imagine themselves young again (regressing back to a time in their lives when there wasn’t so much responsibility and pressure, just getting loved and playing around in a safe environment, lovingly taken care of by someone else), or just like it for purely “kinky” reasons || ie, as a tool in watersports, BDSM powerplay, allowing for prolonged BDSM sessions, etc. ||, and some people like it for completely “safe” reasons, like the anxieties I mentioned in the earlier comment.All depends on the person.
Hehe. “All Depends on the person.”
No problem.I’ve tried asking before about other fetishes like farting, bondage, sneezing, but usually just get bombarded with hatred, anger, and people being frustrated. I can never get good answers without people drowning out the other trying to answer and staying calm.
@Background Pony #DF1A
Glad I could help! Any questions? I think I can write a little about bondage if you’re wondering about that one. I’m not as big into that as I am into diapers, but I do enjoy it. Ah, here I go; there’s nothing really bad in here, but I think I’ll do this ’cause the picture is rated as “safe” :p||The two (BDSM and diapers) seem rather closely related, with long sessions of the first making diapers necessary, and both being, at least in my case, about being able to completely relax / relieve anxieties. I’ll admit one of my vices are that I’m a little bit of a control freak - it comes from worrying about everything and wanting to make sure things are/go well, and in BD, well, when you’re completely helpless, and if you’re completely defeated/submissive, then there’s really nothing to worry about since there’s nothing you can do, except sit there. You don’t have to worry about things when you’re forced to realize that there’s nothing you can do at all.Which is why it only really works in play, since in any real situation where you’re held against your will there would be a lot to worry about, and always some possibility of escape.Not to mention, I think for most ponies, and this definitely applies to me as well, it has to do with the fact that when you’re restrained, your body releases adrenaline, heightening all of your senses and awareness, so it makes all feelings/senses more intense.And finally… We all want to rescue a damsel in distress. There’s this great thing in us that wants to help others when they’re in need: it creates some love and sympathy for someone in distress. Well, when you’re tied up and/or helpless, you feel some of that towards yourself.||
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