I am serious and always hope for your well-being. If I were a Christian believer, I would pray for you every day. But I believe in the old gods and expect you one day together in Valhalla.
[Note: No matter how depressed and drunk I get sometimes (well, I only drink wine anyway), I am VERY serious about such things]
If Odin (my lord) had an account, his hashtag would be: ValhallaIsForThoseWhoStruggletInLife
As long as we protect the others. It doesn't always have to be the family or our own happiness. Odin knows who is fighting in his/her/them life. And fighting does not necessarily mean killing someone. As long as we face that is against us and our fellow man.
But I am just a simple person. What do I know about the gods? ;-)