I hate all that manosphere shit, all the ‘looksmaxing’ and sometimes even the personal fitness obscession involved.
I mean there is youtube people like ‘moreplatesmoredates’ telling you that you’re not eating enough, you need to have all this muscle and stuff.
I mean looksmaxing sure if you mean clean clothes and some good habits.
Women rarely want a huge guy that acts like an asshole. Evolution doesn’t really favor this as much anymore, hyperaggresive men are bad at relationships and children.
They and also men judge you on things like reliability, sometimes health (mental usually being most important), responsibility. If you two are able to share goals and interest, or communicate properly.
You need empathy, being able to truly understand how women feel, and knowing that they get approached a lot more often.
People are also going to want someone financially responsible. This isn’t gold digging, its common sense. Some might have needs like they’re quick to date someone because they need shelter, or money or something, this is up for you to decide if it’s worth.
Meeting strangers is awkward. Why would man or women want to be fucked with randomly in public? they’re probably busy. Even if they look like they’re relaxing, they probably got things to do, and day planned out.
Women would love to smile more and be friendlier, but they get fucked with a lot by people who think they are flirting. If a girl gives you that resting bitch face, just smile and avoid them if you can.
All this is common sense empathy. And applies to a lot more than cis men seeking cis women.
Incels talk all this shit about genetics and stuff, forgetting that men and women are genetically inclined to not like insecure sexists assholes.