I'll give you Vegeta and even Helga to an extent, however Amity at the very least made an effort to change herself for the better and fix the damage she'd done ([check out this vid](https://youtu.be/mU8HGJK4tNc)).
While I'm not opposed to waiting for things to develop better, by this point heMauroz's been doing a poor job of making me WANT to see them together, especially with some of the images of them together where are the characters act like none of that abuse ever happened.
Like I said, she's done nothing to show that she deserves sSpike's affection or forgiveness so far, them getting together without addressing all of the abuse has gone to go get the equivalent of [Chowder or getting married to his stalker](https://youtu.be/htStwjDEBEs).