That’s perfectly legal in the United States - Churches and clergy may discriminate against whomever they please. Churches and clergy can discriminate against you and refuse to marry you based on your shoe color if they want. Because of the separation of Church and State.
However, companies and individuals operating in the public marketplace may not, nor may elected officials, and nor may the state.
You are trying to extend religious protections to the civil marketplace and to the state, and want to do away with basic civil rights like the right of assembly and equal access under the law.
And, yes - that’s wrong of you. You don’t get to discriminate against others based on their race in America. Advocating that it should not only be “ok” to do so but somehow “moral” to do so is … wait - oh.
I recognize this.
This is Abraham Lincoln’s Cooper Union address … you’re asking for the same thing southern states were asking for during the civil war. As Lincoln put it:
“This, and this only: cease to call slavery wrong, and join them in calling it right. And this must be done thoroughly - done in acts as well as in words. Silence will not be tolerated - we must place ourselves avowedly with them. Senator Douglas’ new sedition law must be enacted and enforced, suppressing all declarations that slavery is wrong, whether made in politics, in presses, in pulpits, or in private. We must arrest and return their fugitive slaves with greedy pleasure. We must pull down our Free State constitutions. The whole atmosphere must be disinfected from all taint of opposition to slavery, before they will cease to believe that all their troubles proceed from us.” – Abraham Lincoln.
Substitute “slavery” with “racism”, and you’re asking the same thing - you want to know why it’s wrong to completely abolish equality before the law, and only afford individuals their civil rights based on their race. You’re asking for all of civil society to see it as “civil” and “just” to allow racial discrimination, and to create a state where only people of certain races retain legal rights.
Well, I think you’re wrong. Very, very, very wrong.
And, no - if as you posit Obama had
tried to restrict immigration to only allow black people to come into the United States, he would have been wrong.
He would have been wrong morally, and legally, and ethically. It would have been very, very wrong of him to try to do that. And it would have been flat out illegal and unconstitutional - it never would have stood in any court and ethical people in the departments tasked with implementing it would have properly, and legally, refused to do so. Just like with Trump’s first and second immigration bans.