ryuspirit23 asked:
So Lizzy. I’m really sorry about what happened to you and Lily, but I have a question and it’s not personal. What happened with you two in December? Just curious
Well, that actually is kinda personal, but I do appreciate that you care about my side of the story. The long and short of it was that I broke up with her. I don’t want to get into the details of why, because I know that her detractors will latch onto whatever I say, no matter how I say it, as “proof” of the “Lily is abusive” theory. And I promised her that I wouldn’t turn into one of those ex-friends that turns around and says awful things about her.
I had my reasons why I broke things off, of course, and I know I made mistakes in how I handled it. All I can say is that I tried my best to do right by both her and myself in a situation where there was no “right thing” to do, but rather the “least bad thing” to do.
I know she’s said some less-than-positive things about me since, and there are definitely times where I’ve felt angry that the things I’ve done or said have been interpreted in the worst possible way or that I can’t speak as openly as she can lest anything be used to hurt her. But I have people in less public settings that I’m able to talk to, and that’s helped immensely.
So yeah, long story short, we broke up and things got real messy. I still believe Lily is a good person and deserves to be happy, so the least I can do is keep my promise and not get in the way of that happiness.
I’m not really able to fully answer your question, but I do appreciate you asking it, if that makes sense. Like, it’s nice to know that people care about why I broke up with her, not just that I did at all, you know?
I mean it is sort of admiral that she is willing to still protect Lily but on the other hand those other ex-friends of Lily had every right to call her out. Still how is she not getting the fact that Lily really is a horrible person?