@Blackie
That’s actually another thing. Talking in a deeper voice tends to make people take you more seriously(Or so Cracked.com says), it does seem to work when I do it(anecdotal evidence aside). Seems to work best on guys(I’ve had four guys complement my
sexy voice when I did so)
@Itsthinking
I’m gonna have to say that depends. If you’re a master debater(stop laughing) and can speak coherently for long periods of time, go for it.
But it always seems(and this is backed up in a few books on conversation I’ve read) that people who try too hard to dominate the conversation will be seen as attention whore-y or, if they talk above their intelligence, a know-nothing-know-it-all.
The advice I seemed to get is, when in group conversation, quietly listen to the conversation and answer when you are most confident. Remaining quiet will enhance your mystique and answering confidently will make you seem like you don’t need to run your mouth to win their respect.
Otherwise? There doesn’t seem to be a hard and fast rule. Different people are different. Sure there are tricks that can make things easier but whether they work or not is really down to the person.