[Dark] Depression/Suicides within the fandom (The revival)

@Cirrus Light
 
Dammn,that’s deep,I totally agree.
 

 
 
@team blueplant
 
So,how about we try again?

@Cirrus Light  
Shit,you are really good at this this.  
Most of what you just said is true,I wish I could take some of that and be a better person but I am too far gone.

@Minidavi8  
look david, im not a mercyless person, i dont want revenge, you have a lot of ways to take revenge on me, a lot, i had one way to take revenge on you, but i dint take it, i know i sayed a lot that i cant live whitout you and all that, but whit all that happened today, i got sick, you never change, you never never listened to me, you are so anoying sonetimes because 4chan, you constantly use things like “lmao, k, gtfo, got em” you discrimine me because im too “normie”, you know all that anoys me, i ask you to stop, but you just keep on and keep on and keep on, so i just got sick of it, of everything, i got sick of triying over and over and over again, and in the end i only got you breaking whit me for stupid reasons, you knew that im in a fragile state because medicine and my broken nose after-surgery problem, and you still keeped doing all those thins that i hate, i ask myself, what could hapend if i didnt post anything here in the firstplace? because now you re asking me to try again, for the first time in years, and only because you didnt want to look bad, you dint want to look like “the brony who blackmailed and treated his cople in a very bad way” for once you werent in control, you werent superior, and you entered in panic, saying stuff like killing yourself, that i ruined your life and all  
im not stupid david, im not, i sometime have those philosofical moments like cirrus here, and i know you, better than yourself, when you were sad and weak, like me sometimes, i could be you, and make you feel more bad, i didnt  
the thing is, ill give you one more chance if you dont change, i will just end it, because im sick, im tired of this constant thing when you dont care about me, or my feeling, or my opinion, i might seem like the bad one now, but im just sick and tired, very sick and tired

welp he falled asleep, notbigsurprise

@team blueplant  
I hope he finally listens for both of yours sake

@team blueplant  

 
I hope you’re talking about the relationship, here.
 
Suicide really is murder. The ones who really suffer from a murder isn’t the victim - the victim is dead and their suffering ended very quickly - it’s those who carry the weight of that loss with them the rest of their lives.
 
And you can’t just expect the other person to change for you. Relationships are a give and take. You have to give some, too - much like what AJ told Rarity in “Sisterhooves Social”.

@Cirrus Light  
Expect for me

team blueplant Minidavi8 Look’s like some guys didn’t mentionated me in this situation….(Ray,if you don’t know who i am) i am…..the best friend,the one who has more and more points of view about this relationship problem, and believe me, this is like a masoquism problem,he hates it, but ge likes it…. I dont know what to say after i read aaaall this conversation…if there is something that i can say about my Friends,is that they have a relationship, an explosive and dangerous relationship that is not working.
 
You team blueplant for think that David is going to change and still trusting him and you Minidavi8, that is still hiding all the things that you should reveal, if you want to be the good one in this story, because you know that you’re a bad person,s pecially with me, and i know how nahu feels,because you’re only that, an extortionist good for nothing that only knows how to use people for your own and take Revenge if you don’t have the things that you want in that moment,please, i only want peace in this relationship, nahu is giving you a chance every and evey time you ruin it, and you only dont want to change because you like to be like you are,and that is not healthy,please,solve this problem….

@The Last Reviewer  
No. Not really. Maybe if both your parents and all your siblings and uncles and aunts and cousins were dead and you were a mass murderer who’d killed all your friends or something, but I’m pretty sure that’s not your story.

@r2d2arturo  
@team blueplant  
@Minidavi8  
Listen to this man.  
A third point view is always helpful because if not associated closely to either one, can provide a non-biased opinion on what the problem within this relationship is.

@Cirrus Light  
…………but I have no family

I don’t know full what the issue here is, but if you have a problem with any users, report them to us, and we’ll try to do what we can.

@team blueplant  
@Minidavi8  
In addition to what Mike said, the two of you should please take your personal relationship issues to PMs or to a relationship counselor. This is a pony image booru - not the Jerry Springer show, and some of the personal information in your public posts are getting really close to Rule #8.
 
Also, neither of you has reported the other so please drop the whole trying to get me banned thing.

@Ciaran
 
@Ciaran  
We know but, he really needs help,and this discussion is not related to pony content but, who cares, this is a community and my friend only wanted a hoof, and people helped a lot, and i think that this is one of many friendship lessons that we need to considerate, and people rejected this user?no, they tried to help him,so why moving this problem to another place?yes,we know that derpibooru is not for that,but who cares,he feels very sad and he only want answers,so please don’t be so rude,this is a very difficult situation that few people know,and my friend needs a lot of help :(

@r2d2arturo  
Even if there are professionals here this is not a “safe space” for these kinds of discussions. Trolls can wander by at any time and harvest the information in these discussions, and all of this is showing up in Google searches now.
 
If individuals here need professional help they should get professional help.
 
And couples who are having relationship issues that they need to work out amongst themselves should work it out amongst themselves - including the entire community in this way is resulting in some very odd misunderstandings that are starting to show up in the reports queue as people telling each other to kill themselves.
 

 
Not any more - now it’s a matter of public record available to anyone who wants to search for it.

@Ciaran  
Well,i know that you are a mod, and i understand that is your job is this web,but….well,we are young people

@r2d2arturo  
Understood. But when these get reported, we have to moderate them. So now we’re in the unenviable position of trying to figure out if we should delete any of these posts because of personal information (rule #8), personal attacks (rule #0), report people to the authorities as credible risks for self harm, or just lock the whole thread for awhile because now some people are asking us, the staff, to take sides in a very personal, and what would normally be a very private, relationship discussion.
 
It is like if people asked the staff at a restaurant to moderate a domestic dispute. It shouldn’t be any of our business, but mow it is.

I honestly think you two would both be better apart. Relationships aren’t supposed to be like this

@Ciaran  
i see your points, i understand, but lets see things from this view:  
about rule #0, he sayed that i should kill myself, yea, he did, but he never did it here, he never posted anything here saying those things, so i dont think is a rule violation if is not posted directly in here, because i sayed “hey, he told me to kill myself 3 times in another chat “ not in any part of derpibooru  
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about rule 8#, i dont see al this like personal information, i sayed that i live in chile to justify my multiple grammar errors, about the black mail, i sayed “he has photos og me doing some explicit things” never sayed what, or how, or what part of the body are shown  
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i called a suicide hotline, the conversation goes like this  
+hello?  
-hi, this is the suicidal hotline, tell me what is the problem, im here to help  
+its a relationship problem…  
-well tell me whats wrong whit your girlfriend  
+its actualy my boyfriend  
-hangs up  
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guess she was very homofobic, after that i just didnt call again  
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about the reports, i didnt report him, another person did (not gona say names) it was a little execive y must say  
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about searching for profecional help, not gona work because david wont cooperate, and we have pretty good people here, cirrus has a deep mind, the las reviewer is comprensive, warc supported me a lot, tranquil understanded both points of view, as well as HJSDGCE did, we got good people here, and profecional ones too like cirrus (damm man, you have to write a book) and we got a lot of help from here, a lot  
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and what if this appears on google? normal people will saw this is in a pony related page and they will walk away, and trolls dosent bother me, just ignore the reports, and everything will be just fine, i think most of the people here will agree

@team blueplant  
“guess she was very homofobic, after that i just didnt call again”
 
Some-odd 96% of people are straight. It’s not homophobic to assume a guy is talking about a girl when you call and say “relationship issues”. It’s actually a pretty reasonable assumption to make, statistically speaking.

@Cirrus Light  
it was a she do…

@team blueplant  
“the last reviewer is comprensive”  
……………..Thank you,I am flattered that you think me like that.  
I really don’t deserve this,I am just a nobody that really shouldn’t be living.

@team blueplant  
@Minidavi8  
This thread is for discussions of suicide and depression, not for personal domestic disputes.
 
We are sorry for your troubles, but you have both derailed this thread from it’s intended purpose. Any additional posts on this subject will be deleted as being off topic (Rule #6) and bans may result.
 
If you would like to create a new thread for the purpose of publicly discussing your relationship issues, please do, and please provide a link to that thread here so others can find it.

Is it ever possible to be so butthurt about a show that you get depressed? I found out that the answer is “yes” over the past couple days. It was onbrought by some angst in my family (I won’t say where it was coming from, but there was serious venom), and that got me depressed about it. I wanted to turn to MLP:FiM and other shows for escapism, but then I realised something.  
The gradual realisation that Pinkie Pie is indeed the most useless character in the whole show (she does the least fighting, if at all, therefore decreasing her status as a hero in the episodes in which the whole cast is treated as heroes/she’s the only main character to have no story arc, she just bounces around and reacts to the world around her, meaning that she hasn’t successfully evolved with the show/they have to keep her on the show, gradually tugging at her personality until it runs dry and she eventually becomes the most stale and uninteresting character on the show as a result of their lack of hindsight with the evolution of the series concerning her/Starlight, a character introduced 2 seasons ago, effectively being more of a hero than her despite appearing in a 10th of the amount of episodes isn’t helping/most of her biggest fans eventually move onto another ponies as their favourite/characters have been acting more like Pinkie Pie as of late, therefore making her already decaying antics seem redundant in comparision) is not helping at all with my now-critical depression. That physically hurt to type out.  
As Pinkie Pie is my favourite pony and the one I turn to for joy in the show the most often, these contributing factors to her being seemingly useless really hit hard, especially the fact that she doesn’t even fit into the show’s narrative anymore. It honestly makes me cry myself to sleep, because I don’t need a hero (please no Bonnie Tyler jokes) to be an idol, yet the show keeps on pushing “hero = idol” more and more while Pinkie Pie seems less and less like a hero. Therefore, I simply don’t see my favourite pony having a future in the show. If this show goes on for another 3 seasons the way it is, I have no idea if Pinkie Pie would even remotely be considered a main character anymore, especially as new characters pop in which assume a bigger role than her, just because they’re more heroic.